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  • Over 25 years event-planning experience
  • Winner of 30 industry awards
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  • Elton John,
  • Stella McCartney,
  • Sarah Jessica Parker,
  • Kevin Spacey……and more

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01 MAKE IT SPECIAL

Thoughtful ideas that celebrate the person, not their age, focus on the feel-good, and make a 90th birthday special

90 years of memories personalized photo book for a 90th birthday
90 Reasons We Love You photo poster for a 90th birthday
Custom 'Reasons We Love You' photo book with friends and family holding signs
'90 Memories for 90 Years' Share a Memory telegram postcards for a 90th birthday
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02 MAKE IT personal

How to add creative twists and personal touches to create talking points and memorable moments

custom face photo 90th birthday garland banner showing a man 'through the years'
Celebrating 90 years: Custom 90th birthday party dessert table tapestry backdrop with photos showing the guest of honor 'through the years'
gray haired man in a suit standing next to a custom pinata of himself
custom photo personalized Happy Birthday m&m's for a 90th birthday party
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03 90th birthday party decorations

How to maximize your budget by concentrating your 90th birthday party decorations in a few key areas

'cheers to 90 years' 90th birthday custom photo banner showing photos of the guest of honor 'then and now'
90th birthday photo collage in the shape of the numbers 90 on a party dessert table
happy birthday Natalie spelled out in a yard card in front of house
number 90 balloon mosaic 90th birthday party decorations
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04 90th birthday party activities

How to break the ice, provide conversation-starters, encourage mingling, and create atmosphere

DIY vodka bar with mixers and fruit set up at a 90th birthday party
90th birthday guestbook alternative signing poster with photos of the guest of honor 'then and now'
This or That? printable party game about the birthday boy or girl
yellow retro telephone audio guest book set up next to an instructions sign inviting party guests to record a message
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05 90th birthday party food

Why food stations geared towards small bites, tasting plates, and DIY options are better than buffets

Hors d'oeuvres and appetizers arranged in rows on a modern 90th birthday party buffet table / food station
90th birthday party food presentation ideas: fish salad served in margarita glasses with forks
90th birthday party hors d'oeuvres: cheese bites served on forks standing vertically
90th birthday party food ideas: individual portion charcuterie cups
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06 dessert tables

How a dessert table can lend visual spectacle, save time, and maximize budget for a 90th birthday party

personalized custom caricature cookie of a man for a surprise party
an asymmetrical dessert table layout
individual fruit salad desserts served in martini glasses on a tired stand on party dessert table
black sequin shimmer party backdrop behind a dessert table
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07 90th birthday party drinks

Get that professionally-catered look and give traditional drinks a creative twist

custom photo personalized beer bottle labels for 90th birthday party drinks
90th birthday party drinks ideas: boxwood hedge party drinks bar wall with shelves of self-service drinks for guests to help themselves to
custom photo 'Fun Facts about the Birthday boy' 90th birthday party napkins
custom photo edible wafer drinks topper with a photo of the birthday girl floating on a cocktail
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08 90th birthday party invitations

Why invitations needs to excite, inspire, and give guests something to look forward to

90th birthday party photo collage invitation showing the birthday boy 'through the years'
animated digital video 90th birthday party invitations displayed on mobile phone screen
balloon custom printed with 90th birthday party invitation details
custom vinyl record party invitation for a 90th birthday party
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09 90th birthday gifts

Avoid uninspiring and clichéd gifts in favor of something that’s unique, meaningful, or a treat

man standing next to a custom muppet-style puppet of himself
custom personalized comic book for a 90th birthday gift
custom bobblehead of a man alongside his photo for an 90th birthday gift
personalized viewmaster reel viewer for a 90th birthday gift
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10 90th birthday party ideas for men

90th birthday party themes, decorations, and ideas aimed at men

'the man, the myth, the legend' custom name 90th birthday party backdrop decorations behind a dessert table
90th birthday party beer tasting party supplies with bottles of beer in ice buckets
The Silver Fox 90th birthday party custom birthday party invitations
90th birthday party beer tasting party supplies with a cheese board
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ADVICE FROM A PRO

90th BIRTHDAY party tips

  • 90th birthdays are significant, so you need to make an effort!
  • Avoid the obvious: generic store-bought decorations emblazoned with 90
  • Instead, make everything as personal as possible
  • Celebrate the person, not their age
  • Avoid lame jokes and clichés like ‘old as dirt’, ‘over the hill, and ‘90 rocks’
  • Concentrate on making them feel loved and appreciated as they turn 90
  • Celebrate their life; their background, accomplishments, and all the things that have made them who they are today
  • Celebrate who they are; admirable qualities, characteristics everyone loves, and even their weird habits and obsessions that drive people crazy!
  • Celebrate your relationship with them; take a walk down memory lane, share memories, funny stories, embarrassing photos, amusing anecdotes, fun facts guests may not know, and indulge in a little sentimentality
  • Focus on things that are meaningful, because that’s what they’ll remember
  • If you’re planning your own 90th birthday bash, you should still take the same approach. Make everything as personal as possible so that it’s a reflection of you; your tastes, your interests, and your sense of humor—with plenty of embarrassing old photos and fun facts
  • I’ll teach you how to design your 90th birthday party like a pro; creating ‘beats’ or ‘moments’ that run throughout the event so guests continue to discover new things as the party unfolds
  • Think of the guest’s journey in terms of different touch points; arrivals, bar, room décor, food, entertainment etc.
  • Then, add a creative twist, person touch, or talking point to each
  • Don’t forget to include activities; things for guests to do that will break the ice, encourage mingling, provide conversation-starters, and create a fun atmosphere that includes everyone.
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MATT’S TIP

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01 Make it special

celebrate the person, not their age

  • Limit the gag gifts and decorations and focus on thoughtful, feel-good ideas.
  • Make them feel loved, appreciated, and good about themselves.

AVOID CLICHÉS

  • Don’t make the common mistake of theming everything around turning 90.
  • Cliched themes like ‘old as dirt’ and ‘oh crap you’re old’ are tired and lazy.
  • They make for an impersonal and unoriginal 90th birthday celebration.
  • Read my full post with ideas for how to make a 90th birthday special or preview some below
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90 memories for 90 years

90 reasons we love you

photo slideshow

a gift every hour

90 years of memories letters

‘open when’ letters

90 years of memories photo book

photo collage memory box

reasons we love you photo book

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ideas to make it special

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90 memories for 90 years

Invite friends and family to mail a postcard sharing a favorite memory of the birthday boy / girl in the days leading up to their 90th birthday

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90th birthday memory postcards
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a gift every hour

Spread the love over an entire day with 12 smaller gifts; one to be opened every 90 minutes!

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a collection of gift wrapped boxes
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reasons we love you photo book

Invite friends and family to take photos expressing all the things they love about the birthday boy / girl to collect together in a keepsake photo book to celebrate their 90th birthday

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reasons we love you 90th birthday photo-book
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90th birthday slideshow

Invite friends and family to contribute photos and videos of the birthday boy / girl to surprise them with an animated slideshow

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group of friends watching a backyard birthday slideshow
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ideas to make it special

90 Reasons We Love You photo poster for a 90th birthday
90 years of memories personalized photo book for a 90th birthday
stack of illustrated brown 'Open When...' letter envelopes for different occasions
a stack of numbered '90 years of memory' letters in air mail envelopes for a 90th birthday party
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02 Make it personal

add creative twists & personal touches

  • A 90th birthday is a special occasion, so you need to make an effort.
  • Generic decorations from Party City or Amazon won’t cut it.
  • Cheap, shiny, and mass-produced in China doesn’t exactly say special does it?
  • It’s the creative twists, clever details, personal touches, talking points, and memorable moments that make a 90th birthday party more special than a regular get-together.
  • So, focus on customizable party supplies that use cute, funny, or embarrassing old photos of the birthday boy / girl to make them unique.
  • Read my full post about the party supplies I recommend and learn how to use them to surprise and entertain guests, create photo ops, and make your party memorable.
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custom photo m&m’s

photo party hats

fan face custom cutouts

custom face banners

fun facts napkins

‘‘then & now photo banners‘

‘through the years’ photo banners

CUSTOM PHOTO WINE/BEER LABELS

life-size talking cutouts

CUSTOM PHOTO BALLOONS

CUSTOM PARTY CUPS

CUSTOM COOKIES

CUSTOM PINATAS

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ideas to make it personal

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custom photo m&m’s

It’s the clever little details that create talking points, so swap regular candy for personalized M&M’s with photos of the 90th birthday boy / girl

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blue and yellow custom photo m&m's with a woman's face
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photo party hats

Create custom party hats printed with old photos of the 90th birthday boy / girl from different stages of their life

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color and black & white photo party hats showing the 90th birthday boy now and as a young man
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fan face custom cutouts

Create photo ops by providing guests with faces of the guest of honor at different stages of their life

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group of men holding custom fan faces of the 90th birthday boy in front of their own faces
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custom face banners

Personalize your party decorations with custom face banners of the 90th birthday boy / girl at different ages

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90th birthday custom face photo banners showing birthday boy at different ages hung above party dessert table
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ideas to make it personal

This Kid is Turning 90 custom photo balloon birthday party decorations with retro photo of young man in the military
custom photo personalized wine bottle labels for party drinks
Tri-fold custom photo collage display board personalized with the name Morgan
large styrofoam letters spelling Grace used as a dessert table base for birthday party decorations
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ADVICE FROM A PRO

planning your own 90th?

  • You should still use customized party supplies if you’re planning your own party.
  • Make it personal so the event is a reflection of you; your tastes, your interests, your sense of humor.
  • Use plenty of embarrassing old photos, amusing anecdotes, and fun facts guests might not know.
  • People often feel self-conscious celebrating themselves or worry that it might appear egotistical,
  • but if you include funny and embarrassing old photos, it has the opposite effect;
  • It communicates self-deprecation, honesty, and a sense of openness.
  • It tells people you don’t take yourself too seriously;
  • that you can laugh at all your bad old haircuts and crimes of fashion!
  • Guests will love it too; many of whom might never have seen you as a cute baby, cheeky little kid, or scruffy college student.
  • So, not only will they find this entertaining,
  • but revealing yourself in a ‘warts and all’ kind of way lets people in, makes you relatable, and fosters a connection.
  • All of which helps breaks the ice, provide conversation-starters, and create a relaxed, fun party atmosphere
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03 90th BIRTHDAY DeCORations

COMMON MISTAKES TO AVOID

  • Don’t try to dress the entire room/venue, this will spread decorations too thinly.
  • Instead, keep everything tight and compact, focusing on a few larger displays or ‘clusters’ of decorations in 4 key areas:
  • Entrance Decor
  • Welcome Area
  • Dessert / Buffet Table or Bar Décor
  • Room Decorations
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custom yard heads

‘through the years’ banners

paper luminaries

life-size talking cutout

‘through the years’ welcome sign

self-service welcome drinks

‘through the years’ party backdrop

photo collage 90 cutouts

paper circle garland backdrops

FUN FACTS BALLOONS

‘THROUGH THE YEARS’ PHOTO GARLANDS

THEN & NOW PHOTO BANNERS

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entrance decorations

  • Entrance decorations need to be welcoming and functional.
  • Use them to identify the location of the party, direct guests to the entrance, create a warm welcome, and put guests at ease.
  • The initial moments of a party set the tone and reassure guests, so first impressions matter.
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custom yard heads

Bring a smile to guests’ faces as they arrive with custom yard heads showing the 90th birthday boy or girl at different stages of their life

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custom photo yard heads of a mans face arranged on a front lawn outside a house
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‘through the years’ banners

Ensure your entrance stands out while making guests smile with vertical banners showing the 90th birthday boy / girl ‘through the years’

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Look Who's Ninety custom photo vertical banners showing the birthday boy 'through the years' hung either side of house door
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paper luminaries

For evening events, give guests a warm welcome by lining the route to your entrance with glowing paper luminaries

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guests arriving at a 90th birthday party at home with a pathway to the front door lined with paper luminaries
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entrance decorations

pink balloon garland draped around door to house
happy birthday Natalie spelled out in a yard card in front of house for an 90th birthday party
red yellow orange petal aisle runner leading up to red barn wedding
pink balloon lined pathway through a park leading to a party entrance
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welcome area

  • You can’t always greet every guest personally, so create a welcome area to:
  • greet guests; with signage, decor, and self-service drinks,
  • entertain; with activities, photo ops, and party favors, and…
  • manage flow; with directional signage for cloakrooms, bathrooms, table plans, and a gift/card table
  • This ensures guests feel acknowledged upon arrival and know what to do and where to go.
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life-size talking cutout

Have the 90th birthday boy / girl greet guests at the entrance with a life-size cutout paired with a motion-activated voice recorder

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90 year old man standing next to a life-size cutout standee of his younger self as a soldier
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‘through the years’ welcome sign

Entertain guests by placing a photo collage showing the 90th birthday / girl at different stages of their life on welcome desks or bars

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celebrating 90 years birthday photo collage sign set up on a party drinks table bar
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self-service drinks table

Set up a self-service bar at the entrance with pre-mixed or ready-to-pour drinks that guests can all help themselves to on arrival

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DIY self-service party drinks bar
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welcome area dEcor

illustrated custom birthday party welcome sign on an easel
Polaroid instant photo guest book and camera set up on a party table
woman's hand placing a card into a custom wooden card box with the name Wilson on it
'Oh Snap! Share the Love' custom hashtag sign for event photos
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dessert table decor

  • Maximize your budget by concentrating decorations around a dessert / buffet table or bar to create a focal point.
  • You’ll get more bang for your buck if you invest your budget in one well-dressed feature wall or large display.
  • This is better than trying to dress an entire room and spreading decorations too thinly.
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‘through the years’ backdrop

Create a custom backdrop for a dessert/buffet table featuring pictures of the 90th birthday boy / girl ‘through the years’

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