i’m matt james

professional event producer

  • 27 years event-planning experience
  • Winner of 30 industry awards
  • Clients include:
  • Elton John,
  • Stella McCartney,
  • Sarah Jessica Parker,
  • Kevin Spacey……and more

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Matt James professional event planner
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01 MAKE IT SPECIAL

Thoughtful ideas that celebrate the person, not their age, focus on the feel-good, and make an 80th birthday special

80 Reasons We Love You photo poster for a 80th birthday
Custom 80th birthday 'Reasons We Love You' photo book with friends and family holding signs
eighty memories for 80 years share a memory telegram style memory postcards
80 years of memories personalized photo book for a 80th birthday

02 MAKE IT personal

How to add creative twists and personal touches to create talking points and memorable moments

'celebrating 80 years' 80th birthday party dessert table tapestry backdrop with photos showing the guest of honor 'through the years'
80 year old man standing next to a custom pinata of himself
custom face photo 80th birthday garland banner showing a woman 'through the years'
custom photo personalized Happy Birthday m&m's for a 80th birthday party

03 80th birthday party decorations

How to maximize your budget by concentrating your 80th birthday party decorations in a few key areas

80th birthday photo collage in the shape of the numbers 80 on a party dessert table
custom 80th birthday yard card spelling out Happy Birthday Judy outside a house
number 80 balloon mosaic 80th birthday party decorations
'cheers to 80 years' 80th birthday custom photo banner showing photos of the guest of honor 'then and now'

04 80th birthday party activities

How to break the ice, provide conversation-starters, encourage mingling, and create atmosphere

DIY vodka bar with mixers and fruit set up at a 80th birthday party
How Old Were They? printable party game for an 80th birthday party
retro telephone audio guest book set up next to an instructions sign inviting party guests to record a message for the 80th birthday boy / girl
80th birthday guestbook alternative signing poster with photos of the guest of honor 'then and now'

05 80th birthday party food

Why food stations geared towards small bites, tasting plates, and DIY options are better than buffets

Hors d'oeuvres and appetizers arranged in rows on a modern 80th birthday party buffet table / food station
80th birthday party food presentation ideas: fish salad served in margarita glasses with forks
80th birthday party hors d'oeuvres: cheese bites served on forks standing vertically
80th birthday party food ideas: individual portion charcuterie cups

06 dessert tables

How a dessert table can lend visual spectacle, save time, and maximize budget for an 80th birthday party

boxwood hedge party backdrop behind a dessert table for an 80th birthday party
individual party desserts served in disposable shooter glasses for an 80th birthday patry
mauve sequin shimmer party backdrop behind an 80th birthday party dessert table
personalized custom caricature cookie of a woman for a 80th birthday party

07 80th birthday party drinks

Get that professionally-catered look and give traditional drinks a creative twist

custom photo personalized beer bottle labels for 80th birthday party drinks
80th birthday party drinks ideas: boxwood hedge party drinks bar wall with shelves of self-service drinks for guests to help themselves to
custom photo 'Fun Facts about the Birthday girl' 80th birthday party napkins
custom photo edible wafer drinks topper with a photo of the birthday girl floating on a cocktail

08 80th birthday party invitations

Why invitations needs to excite, inspire, and give guests something to look forward to

80th birthday party photo collage invitation showing the birthday girl 'through the years'
animated digital video 80th birthday party invitations displayed on mobile phone screen
balloon custom printed with 80th birthday party invitation details
custom vinyl record party invitation for a 80th birthday party

09 80th birthday gifts

Avoid uninspiring and clichéd gifts in favor of something that’s unique, meaningful, or a treat

man standing next to a custom muppet-style puppet of himself; an 80th birthday gift idea
custom personalized comic book for a 80th birthday gift
custom bobblehead of a man alongside his photo for an 80th birthday gift
personalized viewmaster reel viewer for a 80th birthday gift

10 80th birthday party ideas for men

80th birthday party themes, decorations, and ideas aimed at men

'the man, the myth, the legend' custom name 80th birthday party backdrop decorations behind a dessert table
80th birthday party beer tasting party supplies with bottles of beer in ice buckets
The Silver Fox custom 80th birthday party paper party napkins
80th birthday party beer tasting party supplies with a cheese board
ADVICE FROM A PRO

80th BIRTHDAY party tips

  • 80th birthdays are significant, so you need to make an effort!
  • Avoid the obvious: generic store-bought decorations emblazoned with 80
  • Instead, make everything as personal as possible
  • Celebrate the person, not their age
  • Avoid lame jokes and clichés like ‘old as dirt’, ‘over the hill, and ‘80 rocks’
  • Concentrate on making them feel loved and appreciated as they turn 80
  • Celebrate their life; their background, accomplishments, and all the things that have made them who they are today
  • Celebrate who they are; admirable qualities, characteristics everyone loves, and even their weird habits and obsessions that drive people crazy!
  • Celebrate your relationship with them; take a walk down memory lane, share memories, funny stories, embarrassing photos, amusing anecdotes, fun facts guests may not know, and indulge in a little sentimentality
  • Focus on things that are meaningful, because that’s what they’ll remember
  • If you’re planning your own 80th birthday bash, you should still take the same approach. Make everything as personal as possible so that it’s a reflection of you; your tastes, your interests, and your sense of humor—with plenty of embarrassing old photos and fun facts
  • I’ll teach you how to design your 80th birthday party like a pro; creating ‘beats’ or ‘moments’ that run throughout the event so guests continue to discover new things as the party unfolds
  • Think of the guest’s journey in terms of different touch points; arrivals, bar, room décor, food, entertainment etc.
  • Then, add a creative twist, person touch, or talking point to each
  • Don’t forget to include activities; things for guests to do that will break the ice, encourage mingling, provide conversation-starters, and create a fun atmosphere that includes everyone.
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MATT’S TIP

Matt James professional event planner
in this section

01 Make it special

celebrate the person, not their age

  • Limit the gag gifts and decorations and focus on thoughtful, feel-good ideas.
  • Make them feel loved, appreciated, and good about themselves.

AVOID CLICHÉS

  • Don’t make the common mistake of theming everything around turning 80.