By a Pro: Creative 21st Birthday Party Ideas by a Prof

i’m matt james

professional event producer

27 years event-planning experience
Winner of 30 industry awards
Clients include:
Elton John,
Stella McCartney,
Sarah Jessica Parker,
Kevin Spacey……and more

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01 MAKE IT SPECIAL

Thoughtful ideas that celebrate the person, not their age, focus on the feel-good, and make a 21st birthday special

'21 Memories for 21 Years' Share a Memory postcards for a 21st birthday

21 years of memories personalized photo book for a 21st birthday

21 Reasons We Love You photo poster for a 21st birthday

Custom '21 Reasons We Love You' 21st birthday photo book with friends and family holding signs

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02 MAKE IT personal

How to add creative twists and personal touches to create talking points and memorable moments

'celebrating 21 years' 21st birthday party dessert table tapestry backdrop with photos showing the guest of honor 'through the years'

custom face photo 21st birthday garland banner showing a man 'through the years'

young Asian man standing next to a custom pinata of himself

custom photo personalized Happy Birthday m&m's for a 21st birthday party

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03 21st birthday party decorations

How to maximize your budget by concentrating your 21st birthday party decorations in a few key areas

21st birthday photo collage in the shape of the numbers 21 on a party dessert table

'cheers to 21 years' 21st birthday custom photo banner showing photos of the guest of honor 'then and now'

number 21 balloon mosaic 21st birthday party decorations

happy 21st birthday Melissa spelled out in a yard card in front of house

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04 21st birthday party activities

How to break the ice, provide conversation-starters, encourage mingling, and create atmosphere

21st birthday guestbook alternative signing poster with photos of the guest of honor 'then and now'

Interactive DIY vodka bar with mixers and fruit set up at an event as an activity for guests

blue retro telephone audio guest book set up next to an instructions sign inviting party guests to record a message

How well do you know the birthday girl printable party game

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05 21st birthday party food

Why food stations geared towards small bites, tasting plates, and DIY options are better than buffets

Hors d'oeuvres and appetizers arranged in rows on a modern 21st birthday party buffet table / food station

21st birthday party food presentation ideas: fish salad served in margarita glasses with forks

21st birthday party hors d'oeuvres: cheese bites served on forks standing vertically

21st birthday party food ideas: individual portion charcuterie cups

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06 dessert tables

How a dessert table can lend visual spectacle, save time, and maximize budget for a 21st birthday party

pink sequin shimmer party backdrop behind a dessert table

young man next to a personalized custom caricature cookie of himself for his 21st birthday party

individual layered party desserts served in disposable shooter glasses

boxwood hedge party backdrop behind a dessert table for a kid's birthday party

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07 21st birthday party drinks

Get that professionally-catered look and give traditional drinks a creative twist

custom photo personalized beer bottle labels for 21st birthday party drinks

21st birthday party drinks ideas: boxwood hedge party drinks bar wall with shelves of self-service drinks for guests to help themselves to

custom photo edible wafer party drinks topper with a photo of the birthday girl floating on a cocktail

custom photo 'Fun Facts about the Birthday boy' 21st birthday party napkins

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08 21st birthday party invitations

Why invitations needs to excite, inspire, and give guests something to look forward to

21st birthday party photo collage invitation showing the birthday boy 'through the years'

animated digital video 21st birthday party invitations displayed on mobile phone screen

balloon custom printed with 21st birthday party invitation details

custom vinyl record party invitation for a 21st birthday party

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09 21st birthday gifts

Avoid uninspiring and clichéd gifts in favor of something that’s unique, meaningful, or a treat

woman standing next to a custom muppet-style puppet of herself

custom personalized comic book for a 21st birthday gift

custom bobblehead of a young woman alongside her photo for a 21st birthday gift

personalized viewmaster reel viewer for a 21st birthday gift

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10 21st birthday party ideas for men

21st birthday party themes, decorations, and ideas aimed at men

'the man, the myth, the legend' custom name 21st birthday party backdrop decorations behind a dessert table

21st birthday party beer tasting party supplies with bottles of beer in ice buckets

21st birthday party beer tasting party supplies with a cheese board

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ADVICE FROM A PRO

21st BIRTHDAY party tips

21st birthdays are significant, so you need to make an effort!
Avoid the obvious: generic store-bought decorations emblazoned with 21
Instead, make everything as personal as possible
Celebrate the person, not their age
Avoid lame jokes and clichés about ‘RIP Fake ID’ or ‘finally legal’.
Concentrate on making them feel loved and appreciated as they turn 21
Celebrate their life; their background, accomplishments, and all the things that have made them who they are today
Celebrate who they are; admirable qualities, characteristics everyone loves, and even their weird habits and obsessions that drive people crazy!
Celebrate your relationship with them; take a walk down memory lane, share memories, funny stories, embarrassing photos, amusing anecdotes, fun facts guests may not know, and indulge in a little sentimentality
Focus on things that are meaningful, because that’s what they’ll remember
If you’re planning your own 21st birthday bash, you should still take the same approach. Make everything as personal as possible so that it’s a reflection of you; your tastes, your interests, and your sense of humor—with plenty of embarrassing old photos and fun facts
I’ll teach you how to design your 21st birthday party like a pro; creating ‘beats’ or ‘moments’ that run throughout the event so guests continue to discover new things as the party unfolds
Think of the guest’s journey in terms of different touch points; arrivals, bar, room décor, food, entertainment etc.
Then, add a creative twist, person touch, or talking point to each
Don’t forget to include activities; things for guests to do that will break the ice, encourage mingling, provide conversation-starters, and create a fun atmosphere that includes everyone.

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MATT’S TIP

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01 Make it special

celebrate the person, not their age

Limit the gag gifts and decorations and focus on thoughtful, feel-good ideas.
Make them feel loved, appreciated, and good about themselves.

AVOID CLICHÉS

Don’t make the common mistake of theming everything around turning 21.
Clichéd themes like ‘finally legal’ or ‘RIP Fake ID’ are tired and lazy.
They make for an impersonal and unoriginal 21st birthday celebration.
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21 memories for 21 years

21 reasons we love you

photo slideshow

a gift every hour

21 years of memories letters

‘open when’ letters

21 years of memories photo book

photo collage memory box

reasons we love you photo book

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21 memories for 21 years

Invite friends and family to mail a postcard sharing a favorite memory of the birthday boy / girl in the days leading up to their 21st birthday

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a gift every hour

Spread the love over an entire day with 12 smaller gifts; one to be opened every hour….at 21 minutes past the hour!

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reasons we love you photo book

Invite friends and family to take photos expressing all the things they love about the birthday boy / girl to collect together in a keepsake photo book to celebrate their 21st birthday

reasons we love you 21st birthday photo-book

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21st birthday slideshow

Invite friends and family to contribute photos and videos of the birthday boy / girl to surprise them with an animated slideshow

group of friends watching a backyard birthday slideshow

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a stack of numbered '21 years of memory' letters in air mail envelopes

stack of illustrated brown 'Open When...' letter envelopes for different occasions

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02 Make it personal

add creative twists & personal touches

A 21st birthday is a special occasion, so you need to make an effort.
Generic decorations from Party City or Amazon won’t cut it.
Cheap, shiny, and mass-produced in China doesn’t exactly say special does it?
It’s the creative twists, clever details, personal touches, talking points, and memorable moments that make a 21st birthday party more special than a regular get-together.
So, focus on customizable party supplies that use cute, funny, or embarrassing old photos of the birthday boy / girl to make them unique.
Read my full post about the party supplies I recommend and learn how to use them to surprise and entertain guests, create photo ops, and make your party memorable.

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custom photo m&m’s

photo party hats

fan face custom cutouts

custom face banners

fun facts napkins

‘‘then & now photo banners‘

‘through the years’ photo banners

CUSTOM PHOTO WINE/BEER LABELS

life-size talking cutouts

CUSTOM PHOTO BALLOONS

CUSTOM PARTY CUPS

CUSTOM COOKIES

CUSTOM PINATAS

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custom photo m&m’s

It’s the clever little details that create talking points, so swap regular candy for personalized M&M’s with photos of the 21st birthday boy / girl

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photo party hats

Create custom party hats printed with old photos of the 21st birthday boy / girl from different stages of their life

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fan face custom cutouts

Create photo ops by providing guests with faces of the guest of honor at different stages of their life

group of people holding custom fan faces of the 21st birthday girl in front of their own faces

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custom face banners

Personalize your party decorations with custom face banners of the 21st birthday boy / girl at different ages

21st birthday custom face photo banners showing birthday boy at different ages hung above party dessert table

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This Kid is Turning 21 and Look Who's 21 custom photo birthday party balloon decorations

custom photo personalized wine bottle labels for party drinks

Tri-fold custom photo collage display board personalized with the name Connor

two young women standing next to large styrofoam letters spelling 21 for 21st birthday party decorations

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ADVICE FROM A PRO

planning your own 21st?

You should still use customized party supplies if you’re planning your own party.
Make it personal so the event is a reflection of you; your tastes, your interests, your sense of humor.
Use plenty of embarrassing old photos, amusing anecdotes, and fun facts guests might not know.
People often feel self-conscious celebrating themselves or worry that it might appear egotistical,
but if you include funny and embarrassing old photos, it has the opposite effect;
It communicates self-deprecation, honesty, and a sense of openness.
It tells people you don’t take yourself too seriously;
that you can laugh at all your bad old haircuts and crimes of fashion!
Guests will love it too; many of whom might never have seen you as a cute baby or cheeky little kid.
So, not only will they find this entertaining,
but revealing yourself in a ‘warts and all’ kind of way lets people in, makes you relatable, and fosters a connection.
All of which helps breaks the ice, provide conversation-starters, and create a relaxed, fun party atmosphere

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03 21st BIRTHDAY DeCORations

COMMON MISTAKES TO AVOID

Don’t try to dress the entire room/venue, this will spread decorations too thinly.
Instead, keep everything tight and compact, focusing on a few larger displays or ‘clusters’ of decorations in 4 key areas:
Entrance Decor
Welcome Area
Dessert / Buffet Table or Bar Décor
Room Decorations
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custom yard heads

‘through the years’ banners

paper luminaries

life-size talking cutout

‘through the years’ welcome sign

self-service welcome drinks

‘through the years’ party backdrop

photo collage 21 cutouts

paper circle garland backdrops

FUN FACTS BALLOONS

‘THROUGH THE YEARS’ PHOTO GARLANDS

THEN & NOW PHOTO BANNERS

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entrance decorations

Entrance decorations need to be welcoming and functional.
Use them to identify the location of the party, direct guests to the entrance, create a warm welcome, and put guests at ease.
The initial moments of a party set the tone and reassure guests, so first impressions matter.

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custom yard heads

Bring a smile to guests’ faces as they arrive with custom yard heads showing the 21st birthday boy or girl at different stages of their life

custom photo yard heads of a mans face arranged on a front lawn outside a house

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‘through the years’ banners

Ensure your entrance stands out while making guests smile with vertical banners showing the 21st birthday boy / girl ‘through the years’

Look Who's Twenty One custom photo vertical banners showing the birthday boy 'through the years' hung either side of house door

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paper luminaries

For evening events, give guests a warm welcome by lining the route to your entrance with glowing paper luminaries

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entrance decorations

pink balloon garland draped around door to house

red fabric aisle runner leading up to venue entrance

pink balloon lined pathway through a park leading to a party entrance

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welcome area

You can’t always greet every guest personally, so create a welcome area to:
greet guests; with signage, decor, and self-service drinks,
entertain; with activities, photo ops, and party favors, and…
manage flow; with directional signage for cloakrooms, bathrooms, table plans, and a gift/card table
This ensures guests feel acknowledged upon arrival and know what to do and where to go.

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life-size talking cutout

Have the 21st birthday boy / girl greet guests at the entrance with a life-size cutout paired with a motion-activated voice recorder

21 year old african american man standing next to a life-size cutout standee of himself

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‘through the years’ welcome sign

Entertain guests by placing a photo collage showing the 21st birthday / girl at different stages of their life on welcome desks or bars

celebrating 21 years birthday photo collage sign set up on a party drinks table bar

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self-service drinks table

Set up a self-service bar at the entrance with pre-mixed or ready-to-pour drinks that guests can all help themselves to on arrival

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welcome area dEcor

custom photo 21st birthday party welcome sign on an easel

Polaroid instant photo guest book and cameras set up on a party table

woman's hand placing a card into a Kraft card box with 'cards' on it

Do it for the Gram printable custom hashtag sign

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dessert table decor

Maximize your budget by concentrating decorations around a dessert / buffet table or bar to create a focal point.
You’ll get more bang for your buck if you invest your budget in one well-dressed feature wall or large display.
This is better than trying to dress an entire room and spreading decorations too thinly.

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‘through the years’ backdrop

Create a custom backdrop for a dessert/buffet table featuring pictures of the 21st birthday boy / girl ‘through the years’

Celebrating 21 Years custom photo birthday backdrop behind a party dessert table

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photo collage 21 cutouts

Create a tabletop dessert table display with a photo collage 21 cutout showing the birthday boy / girl at different ages

number 21 'through the years' photo collage cutout standing on a party dessert table showing photos of the 21st birthday boy

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paper circle garland backdrops

For a soft and delicate 21st birthday party backdrop, these ombré paper circle garlands lend a whimsical touch

blue ombré paper circle garland backdrop for a party buffet table

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dessert table dEcor

blue sequin shimmer party backdrop behind a dessert table

black and gold striped custom party dessert table backdrop

orange fringe party backdrop behind a dessert table at a bridal shower

pink and white paper flower wall party backdrop

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room decorations

Consider how a room will look when it’s full of people.
Concentrate on decorating perimeter walls, space above head height, and table décor that adds height.
Add creative twists and personal touches to everyday decorations, such as balloons and banners, to make them more special.
This creates conversation-starters, photo-ops, and talking points to engage and entertain guests while encouraging mingling.

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fun facts balloons

Hang photos with ‘fun facts you may not know about the 21st birthday boy / girl’ from helium balloons to entertain guests

Photos and 'Fun Facts' about the 21st birthday boy/girl hanging from helium balloon strings used as party room decorations

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‘through the years’ photo garlands

Create interactive party decorations by asking guests to bring their favorite pictures of the 21st birthday boy / girl to add to photo garland decorations

21st birthday photo garland party decorations showing the birthday boy 'Through the Years'

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‘then & now’ photo banners

Give party guests a glimpse of the 21st birthday boy / girl back in the day by decorating walls with ‘Then & Now’ style photo banners

Cheers to 21 Years custom 'Then & Now' photo birthday banner decorations hung above party food table

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room decorations

Jessica custom pool float letter birthday party decorations

100% that bitch rude balloon party decorations

large marquee letter party decorations spelling the name Adrian

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04 21st BIRTHDAY party ACTIVITIES

WHY YOUR PARTY NEEDS ACTIVITIES

Engagement is essential for creating atmosphere.
Icebreakers and conversation-starters facilitate introductions and take the pressure off the host.
Activities encourage circulation, raise the energy, and prevent guests clustering in corners with the people they came with.
Keeping people moving, exploring different areas, and discovering new things creates a lively and fun atmosphere
Most importantly, activities prevent boredom so people leave with something to talk about, share, and remember; they feel as though they’ve had an experience.
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Hello, my name is…stickers

how well do you know the host?

a trip down memory lane

bucket list suggestions

diy cocktail bar

video guestbook

TABLE TOPICS CONVERSATION STARTERS

fun facts balloons

custom pinatas

PHOTO SLIDESHOW

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‘hello my name is…’ stickers

Facilitate introductions and conversations with name tags revealing guest’s ‘Special Talent’, ‘Superhero Power’, or ‘Favorite Sitcom Character’

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guestbook alternative: signing poster

Invite guests to write messages for the 21st birthday boy / girl on a signing poster with ‘Then & Now’ photos to be framed as a keepsake

21st birthday party custom 'then & now' photo framed signing poster guestbook alternative

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audio guestbook

Bring your guestbook to life and capture authentic and unfiltered voice messages from friends and family to treasure forever

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custom piñata

Create a talking point, memorable moment, and photo op for guests to share with a custom piñata resembling the 21st birthday boy / girl

man standing next to a custom pinata of himself

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21 Reasons We Love You signing poster guest book alternative for a 21st birthday party

DIY vodka bar with mixers and fruit set up at an event

Share a memory cards and sign for a trip down memory lane birthday party activity

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05 21st BIRTHDAY PARTY FOOD

WHY YOU SHOULDN’T OFFER A BUFFET

Buffet tables are over; they’re old fashioned, sloppy, and recall those nasty ‘all you can eat’ restaurants where the food sits out all day.
Nowadays, it’s all about ‘food stations’ geared towards small bites, tasting plates, and DIY options.
Food stations still let you:
feed large numbers,
offer a range of dishes (so there’s something for everyone; looking at you vegans!),
and keep food service relaxed and informal, so as not to kill the party atmosphere.
The difference being you get to wow guests with the creative, modern, and stylish presentation that comes with mini tasting plates and dessert cups.
As such, the food station contributes to your overall event design and décor.
Learn my simple food styling and presentation tips that will have everyone thinking your party has been professionally catered!
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food stations

the 80 / 20 rule

groups, rows, & levels

tasting plates & cups

shooter glasses

tasting forks & spoons

pipettes

food in jars

martini glass salads

CHINESE TAKE OUT BOXES

CHARCUTERIE CUPS

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food stations

Arrange mini appetizer plates, tasting cups, and ‘bites’ in groups, rows, and on multiple levels for a stylish, professionally-catered look

Hors d'oeuvres and appetizers arranged in rows on a modern buffet table / food station

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tasting forks

Add height to your display, make small treats more special, or control portion size for more expensive bites by serving on individual tasting forks

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salad served in glasses

Swap large salad bowls for individual ‘grab and go’ style portions that party guests can eat standing up while mingling

fish salad served in margarita glasses with forks

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charcuterie cups

Charcuterie boards look great…until guests start touching them. Avoid the mess by offering individual ‘grab and go’ cups to eat while mingling

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sliders, mini grilled cheese bites, and miniature shots of beer in mugs

salad served in white chinese takeout style boxes with chopsticks as party food

grilled cheese and tomato bisque party food served in shooter glasses

pasta salad served in a jar as party food ideas

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06 21st BIRTHDAY DESSERT TABLEs

WHY YOU NEED A DESSERT TABLE

Lend visual spectacle and wow factor to room decor.
Maximize budget by making inexpensive or homemade desserts look stylish.
Save time by preparing big-batch desserts in advance to portion on the day.
Presentation can elevate simple, basic, or store-bought treats to make them feel more special.
Entertain, treat, and surprise guests with quirky, unusual, or indulgent bite-size treats.
Accommodates diets, allergies, and intolerances easily with a variety of smaller treats
Maintains atmosphere; encouraging guests to move around and mingle while grazing
Fosters engagement by creating talking-points and photo ops
Minimizes clean-up and clearing by using high quality disposable serving containers
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custom photo m&m’S

CUSTOM PHOTO MACARONS

FREEZE-DRIED ICE CREAM

BOOZY LOLLIPOPS

GOURMET COTTON CANDY

DECORATED CAKESICLES

VINTAGE TEA CAKES

INFUSED STRAWBERRIES

CUSTOM PORTRAIT COOKIES

CUSTOM PHOTO MARSHMALLOWS

COTTON CANDY CAKES

CHOCOLATE-DIPPED BACON

RETRO CANDY

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disposable shooter glasses

Save time and money by making big-batch desserts in advance and serving in individual plastic shooter glasses for a modern and stylish look

mousse and fruit puree dessert served in shooter glasses

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chocolate pizza

Rich and decadent, these chocolate pizzas will add a quirky and unexpected creative twist to any dessert table

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custom portrait cookies

Add some wow-factor photo-ops to your dessert table display with hand-painted portrait cookies of the 21st birthday boy / girl

personalized custom portrait cartoon cookies

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donut walls

Make a feature of decorated treats so that they contribute to the overall presentation of your dessert table with these donut walls

donuts arranged on a donut wall display stand

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decorated candle apples with donuts, cream, and straws

custom photo macarons printed with a woman's face

green cakesicles with feather and gold leaf decoration

individual fruit salad desserts served in martini glasses on a on party dessert table

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07 21st BIRTHDAY party drinks

GET THAT PROFESSIONALLY-CATERED LOOK

Always create a signature drink; it adds something unique and creates a talking point.
When people get dressed up and go out, they want to discover new things.
So, don’t play it too safe; offer them something unusual.
You can also make traditional drinks more special by adding a creative twist or personal touch to the styling and presentation.
Drinks play a big role in every party,
Your guests are probably going to be carrying one around for most of the night,
So it’s worth making an effort.
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DIY COCKTAIL BAR

PHOTO DRINKS TOPPERS

CUSTOM WINE / BEER LABELS

CHAMPAGNE WALLS

FUN FACTS NAPKINS

EDIBLE DRINKS MARKERS

SIGNATURE DRINKS

MASON JAR COCKTAILS

MILK BOTTLE COCKTAILS

THEMED ICE CUBES

CUSTOM PARTY CUPS

ILLUSTRATED MENUS

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custom photo drinks toppers

Create talking points and photo ops by styling party drinks with custom edible drinks toppers of the 21st birthday boy / girl

custom photo edible wafer drinks topper with a photo of the birthday girl floating on a cocktail

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drinks walls

Create a big first impression by offering guests their welcome drink on arrival from a self-service ‘grab and go’ champagne / cocktail wall

boxwood hedge drinks wall with shelves of self-service drinks for 21st birthday party guests to help themselves to

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custom wine / beer labels

Add a personal touch to wine and beer bottles with custom photo labels showing the 21st birthday boy / girl at different stages of their life

21st birthday party drinks ideas: custom photo wine and beer bottle labels showing the guest of honor at different stages of their life

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fun facts napkins

Use on bars, buffet, or dessert tables to provide conversation-starters and entertain guests with fun facts about the 21st birthday boy / girl

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custom photo party drinks cups with retro photo of the birthday boy

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08 21st BIRTHDAY party INVITATIONS

GIVE GUESTS A REASON TO RSVP

Everybody worries whether people will show up to their party; even the professionals.
Which is why you need to make an effort with your invitations.
If you’re expecting guests to give up their evening, commit weeks in advance, arrange babysitters, buy a gift, get dressed up, and travel across town to celebrate YOUR 21st birthday….
The invitation needs to say ‘this is a special occasion’
Nowadays, it’s rare to receive personal correspondence through the mail.
So, when a stiff, hand-addressed, luxurious, colored envelope unexpectedly lands on the mat, it instantly feels special.
Invitations set the tone; it’s a glimpse of what’s to come, so it needs to excite and inspire.
It needs to reassure people that they’re going to have fun.
It’s needs to build excitement and give them something to look forward to.
So, it needs to be creative.
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printed balloon invitations

custom video invitations

‘through the years’ photo invites

wood invitations

custom candy bar invites

COOKIE INVITATIONS

TRANSPARENT INVITATIONS

CUSTOM PORTRAIT INVITES

CROSSWORD INVITATIONS

JIGSAW INVITATIONS

COOTIE CATCHER INVITATIONS

CUSTOM NEWSPAPER INVITES

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‘through the years’ photo invitation

Bring a smile to guests’ faces by treating them to old photos of the 21st birthday boy / girl ‘through the years’ with a custom photo collage invitation

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printed balloon invitations

Grab guests’ attention and build excitement by printing your 21st birthday party invitation details onto a balloon with instructions to ‘inflate and save the date’

custom printed photo balloon 21st birthday party invitations

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custom video invitations

Save on printing & postage and avoid lost or delayed mail with an animated custom video 21st birthday party invitation that you can send via Whatsapp, iMessage, Messenger, or email

animated custom video 21st birthday party invitation displayed on mobile phone screens

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Pharmacy prescription bottle party invitation

blue starry night foil pressed party invitation

transparent acrylic wedding or party invitation

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09 21st BIRTHDAY GIFTS

AVOID THE OBVIOUS & STEREOTYPICAL

Let’s be honest, most gift websites suck.
They’re typically full of uninspiring, clichéd, or gag gifts that no-one really wants.
Is anyone really excited by personalized grilling tongs or a monogrammed cushion?
And why always so stereotypical?
For men, it’s golf accessories, tools, ties, and grilling equipment.
For women; jewelry boxes, tote bags, photo frames, and engraved glass ornaments. Yawn!
And don’t be fooled that a gift engraved with someone’s name makes it personal.
A truly personal gift is one where real thought has gone into it;
Something you know they’d love but would never treat themselves to,
Something meaningful with sentimental value, or
Something quirky or unique, tailored to the recipient.
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custom puppet

custom comic book

custom reel viewer

custom bobblehead

my life story so far

read me when…

NY TIMES BIRTHDAY BOOK

LONG DISTANCE FRIENDSHIP LAMPS

PERSONALIZED STAR MAP

PERSONALIZED POEM

WISHING BALL

CUSTOM PLUSH DOLL

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21st birthday GIFTS

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custom puppet

For a truly unique and personal gift have a custom Muppet-style puppet made of the 21st birthday boy / girl

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custom reel viewer

Ask friends an family for photos of their favorite memory of the 21st birthday boy / girl to collect together in a custom reel viewer

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custom comic book

Tell the 21st birthday boy / girl’s life story (so far) by creating a custom comic book featuring photos of them ‘through the years’

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custom bobblehead

A perfect gift for the 21st birthday boy / girl who’s hard to buy for…turn them into a bobblehead!

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10 21st BIRTHDAY party ideas for men

Make an effort, not a fuss

Men often say they don’t want you to make a big fuss for their birthday.
But that doesn’t mean you still shouldn’t make an effort.
Granted, some men might not care (or even notice!) if the table styling matches the room decorations.
Or if the food and drink are designed to reflect a particular theme.
But a 21^th birthday is a milestone, so you still want any celebration to feel special.
While you might not need to go all-out on every little detail,
You should still concentrate on making everything as personal as possible.
Start by choosing a simple theme or concept;
such as ‘The Man, the Myth, The Legend’ or a ‘Jack Daniels Whiskey Bash’.
Use this to tie everything together by choosing a few matching party supplies or decorations,
e.g, opt for matching invitations, a party backdrop, and one or two small items that guests will handle, such as custom beer labels, napkins, plates, or cups.
Then add some of the more personalized party ideas, decorations, and activities featured on this page,
especially ones that incorporate cute, funny, or embarrassing old photos of the birthday boy.
It’s these creative twists and personal touches that create talking points that will make your party memorable.
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The Man, The Myth, The Legend

Straight Outta the noughties

Manly Men Doing manly things

Keep Calm I’m Turning 21

Party Like Gatsby

Jack Daniels Whiskey Bash

Rhythm & Brews

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21st birthday party ideas for men

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The Man, The myth, the legend

Big up the big man on his birthday with this range of custom 21st birthday ‘The Man, The Myth, The Legend’ party supplies

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beer tasting

Bring it back to basics and lay on his favorite snacks and a selection of new craft beers he hasn’t tried before with a 21st birthday blind beer tasting party kit

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21st birthday beer tasting party supplies with bottles of beer in ice buckets

black and gold great gatsby 1930s art deco style custom 21st birthday dessert table backdrop

Vintage Dude 21st birthday party theme for men

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Special 21st Birthday Party Ideas

Personalized / Unique 21st Birthday Party Ideas

21st Birthday Party Decorations

21st Birthday Party Activities

21st Birthday Party Food & Drink

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21st Birthday Party Invitations

21st Birthday Gifts

21st Birthday Party Ideas for Men

i’m matt james

professional event producer

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CONTENTS

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01 MAKE IT SPECIAL

02 MAKE IT personal

03 21st birthday party decorations

04 21st birthday party activities

05 21st birthday party food

06 dessert tables

07 21st birthday party drinks

08 21st birthday party invitations

09 21st birthday gifts

10 21st birthday party ideas for men

ADVICE FROM A PRO

21st BIRTHDAY party tips

MATT’S TIP

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01 Make it special

celebrate the person, not their age

AVOID CLICHÉS

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21 memories for 21 years

21 reasons we love you

photo slideshow

a gift every hour

21 years of memories letters

‘open when’ letters

21 years of memories photo book

photo collage memory box

reasons we love you photo book

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21 memories for 21 years

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a gift every hour

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reasons we love you photo book

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21st birthday slideshow

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02 Make it personal

add creative twists & personal touches

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custom photo m&m’s

photo party hats

fan face custom cutouts

custom face banners

fun facts napkins

‘‘then & now photo banners‘

‘through the years’ photo banners

CUSTOM PHOTO WINE/BEER LABELS

life-size talking cutouts

CUSTOM PHOTO BALLOONS

CUSTOM PARTY CUPS

CUSTOM COOKIES

CUSTOM PINATAS

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custom photo m&m’s

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photo party hats

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