i’m matt james

professional event planner

  • Over 25 years event-planning experience
  • Winner of 30 industry awards
  • Clients include:
  • Elton John,
  • Stella McCartney,
  • Sarah Jessica Parker,
  • Kevin Spacey……and more

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01 how to honor someone retiring

CELEBRATE THE PERSON, NOT just their retirement

  • Don’t make the common mistake of theming everything around their retirement.
  • This makes for an impersonal and unoriginal retirement party.
  • Instead, celebrate the person, not just their retirement.

FOCUS ON THE FEEL-GOOD

  • Concentrate on making them feel loved and appreciated.
  • A retirement is an opportunity to make that person feel good about themselves;
  • treating them, reminding them what makes them special, and expressing what they mean to you.
  • It’s an opportunity to communicate all the things we might often think, but seldom say.
  • People often focus on their own faults or failings and overlook or underestimate the good things about themselves.
  • Friends, family, and co-workers are there to remind them of how amazing they are;
  • the good they’ve done; what they’ve contributed, accomplished, and the effect they’ve had on others.
  • So, focus on thoughtful retirement ideas that will make them feel special.
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reasons we love you

Invite friends, family, and co-workers to highlight the admirable qualities, notable traits, or amusing quirks that make the retiree so loved

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framed reasons we love you poster with photo of the retiree
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reasons we love you photo book

Invite friends, family, and co-workers to take photos expressing all the things they love about the retiree to collect together in a keepsake photo book to celebrate their retirement

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reasons we love you retirement photo book
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retirement slideshow

Invite friends, family, and co-workers to contribute photos and videos of the retiree to surprise them with an animated slideshow

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group of friends watching a backyard slideshow
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audio guestbook

Bring your guestbook to life and capture authentic and unfiltered voice messages from friends, family, and co-workers to treasure forever

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retirement party red telephone audio guest book next to a printable instructions sign inviting party guests to leave a message
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a trip down memory lane

Have guests take a trip down memory lane by sharing their favorite memory of the retiree

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Share a memory cards and sign for a retirement party trip down memory lane
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02 thoughtful retirement ideas

  • Many of the special retirement ideas on this page are designed to make the guest of honor feel loved and appreciated.
  • So, use them to:
  • Celebrate their life; their background, their achievements, and what they’ve contributed
  • Celebrate who they are; their admirable qualities, characteristics everyone loves, and even their weird habits and obsessions that drive people crazy!
  • Celebrate your relationship with them; take a walk down memory lane, share memories, funny stories, embarrassing photos, amusing anecdotes, fun facts guests may not know, and indulge in a little sentimentality.
  • You want them to look back and remember their retirement party warmly.
  • So, focus on things that are meaningful, because that’s what they’ll remember.

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Matt James professional event planner
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open when… letters

Be there in spirit when you can’t be there in person with a collection of ‘Open When…’ letters for every occasion

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selection of brown 'open when...' letters for different occasions
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a gift every hour

Spread the love over an entire day with 12 smaller gifts; one to be opened every hour.

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a collection of gift wrapped boxes
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photo memory box

Collect cards, memories, letters, photos, and best wishes from friends, family, and co-workers and present them to the retiree in a custom photo keepsake box

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memory keepsake box customized with photos of the retiree throughout their life
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4 years of memories

Invite ask school / college friends to pen a handwritten letter sharing their fondest memories of the retiree to present as a thoughtful retirement gift

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a stack of numbered 'memory letters' in air mail envelopes
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bucket list suggestions

Ask guests to suggest experiences for the retiree to have now they’ve retired

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'what's next?' bucket list suggestions cards and sign for a retirement party
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reasons we love you guestbook

Turn a guestbook into a meaningful keepsake by having party-goers write down all the things they love about the retiree

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handwritten 67 reasons we love you signing poster retirement party guestbook alternative
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video guestbook

Capture the love by setting up a tablet on a tripod for guests to record video messages for the retiree

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couple recording a video message on a tablet on a tripod for a retirement party
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‘through the years’ photo garlands

Create interactive party decorations by asking guests to bring their favorite pictures of the retiree to add to photo garland decorations

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woman hanging a photo on interactive photo garland retirement party decorations showing the retiree 'Through the Years'
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the legend has retired photo book

Invite friends, family, and co-workers to contribute photos of the retiree ‘through the years’ to capture in a custom photo book

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the legend has retired photo book showing the retiree through the years
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photo collage

A framed photo collage of the retiree at different stages of their life makes both a thoughtful retirement gift and an entertaining tabletop display to entertain guests

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framed retirement photo collage with the word retired made up of 'through the years' style photos of the retiree at different ages
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SHARE A MEMORY POSTCARDS

Invite friends and family to mail a postcard sharing a favorite memory of the retiree in the days leading up to their anniversary

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65 memories for 65 years, share a memory postcards for a retirement party
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03 limit the gag gifts

  • A few gag gifts are fine, but don’t make them the entire focus of your celebration.
  • Everyone has seen and heard them all before,
  • and they’re the type of thing that just ends up stuffed in a drawer the next day,
  • or worse, in the trash.
  • Instead, focus on fun gifts that are personalized and/or meaningful, because that’s what they’ll remember and want to keep.

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Matt James professional event planner
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custom piñata

Create a talking point, memorable moment, and photo op for guests to share with a custom piñata resembling the retiree

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man standing next to a custom pinata of himself
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custom puppet

For a truly unique and personal gift have a custom Muppet-style puppet made of the retiree

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woman standing next to a custom muppet-style puppet of herself for a adult birthday gift
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custom reel viewer

Ask friends an family for photos of their favorite memory of the retiree to collect together in a custom reel viewer

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custom reel viewer / viewfinder made with your own photos for a adult birthday gift
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custom comic book

Tell the retiree’s life story (so far) by creating a custom comic book featuring photos of them ‘through the years’

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'Super Dad' custom comic book featuring cartoon versions of family photos for a adult birthday gift
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04 how to make a retirement party memorable

  • Let’s be honest, looking back, they’re probably not going to remember that their retirement party had mango Mojito’s…
  • or gourmet bacon & goat cheese sliders…
  • or that the balloons were emblazoned with ‘Goodbye Tension, Hello Pension’.
  • And all those retirement gag gifts and jokes are probably going to get stuffed in a drawer (or the trash!) the very next day.
  • But the special retirement party ideas on this page are the type of things they’ll keep and treasure.
  • They’ll get enjoyment from re-visiting them in the future.
  • Because they’ll remember how they made them FEEL.

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Matt James professional event planner
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fun facts balloons

Hang photos with ‘fun facts you may not know about the retiree’ from helium balloons to entertain guests

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Photos and 'Fun Facts' about the retiree hanging from helium balloon strings used as party room decorations
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FUN FACTS FILLED BALLOONS

Fill balloons with ‘fun facts you may not know about the retiree’ and encourage guests to pop to reveal

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Fun facts filled 'Pop Me' balloons for a retirement party
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guestbook alternative: signing poster

Invite guests to write messages for the retiree on a signing poster to be framed as a keepsake

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retirement party custom 'then & now' photo framed signing poster guestbook alternative
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fun facts napkins

Use on bars, buffet, or dessert tables to provide conversation-starters and entertain guests with ‘Fun Facts About the Retiree’

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custom photo 'Fun Facts about the Retiree' retirement party napkins
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polaroid guestbook

Snap it, shake it, stick it, sign it! Invite guests to illustrate their guestbook entry by using an instant camera

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Polaroid guestbook, instant camera, and instructions sign set up for a retirement party

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great Ideas i wish i’d thought of…

Check out this great idea below from Marta Dansie of Marta Writes

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fun facts garland banners

Personalize your party decorations and entertain guests with garland banners highlighting fun facts about the retiree

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retirement party fun facts about the retiree garland banner decorations hanging from tree at garden party
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more retirement party ideas

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retirement party self service drinks bar with drinks dispensers, mixers, and mini champagne bottles
black and gold striped custom retirement party dessert table backdrop
Hors d'oeuvres and appetizers arranged in rows on a modern retirement party buffet table / food station
boxwood hedge retirement party drinks bar wall with shelves of self-service drinks for guests to help themselves to
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