i’m matt james

professional event planner

  • Over 25 years event-planning experience
  • Winner of 30 industry awards
  • Clients include:
  • Elton John,
  • Stella McCartney,
  • Sarah Jessica Parker,
  • Kevin Spacey……and more

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01 how to make a 18th birthday special

CELEBRATE THE PERSON, NOT THEIR AGE

  • Don’t make the common mistake of theming everything around turning 18.
  • This makes for an impersonal and unoriginal 18th birthday celebration.
  • Instead, celebrate the person, not their age.

FOCUS ON THE FEEL-GOOD

  • Concentrate on making the birthday boy / girl feel loved and appreciated.
  • Birthdays should be about making that person feel good about themselves;
  • treating them, reminding them what makes them special, and expressing what they mean to you.
  • It’s an opportunity to communicate all the things we might often think, but seldom say.
  • People often focus on their own faults or failings and overlook or underestimate the good things about themselves.
  • Friends and family are there to remind them of how amazing they are;
  • the good they’ve done; what they’ve contributed, accomplished, and the effect they’ve had on others.
  • So, focus on thoughtful 18th birthday ideas that will make them feel special.
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18 memories for 18 years

Invite friends and family to mail a postcard sharing a favorite memory of the birthday boy / girl in the days leading up to their 18th birthday

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18th birthday memory postcards
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18 reasons we love you

Invite friends and family to highlight the admirable qualities, notable traits, or amusing quirks that make the 18th birthday boy or girl so loved

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framed reasons we love you poster with photo of the 18 year old birthday boy
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a gift every hour

Spread the love over an entire day with 12 smaller gifts; one to be opened every hour….at 18 minutes past the hour!

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a collection of gift wrapped boxes
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open when… letters

Be there in spirit when you can’t be there in person with a collection of ‘Open When…’ letters for every occasion

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selection of brown 'open when...' letters for different occasions
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audio guestbook

Bring your guestbook to life and capture authentic and unfiltered voice messages from friends and family to treasure forever

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18th birthday party red telephone audio guest book next to a printable instructions sign inviting party guests to leave a message
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02 thoughtful 18th birthday ideas

  • Many of the special 18th birthday ideas on this page are designed to make the guest of honor feel loved and appreciated.
  • So, use them to:
  • Celebrate their life; their background, their achievements, and what they’ve contributed
  • Celebrate who they are; their admirable qualities, characteristics everyone loves, and even their weird habits and obsessions that drive people crazy!
  • Celebrate your relationship with them; take a walk down memory lane, share memories, funny stories, embarrassing photos, amusing anecdotes, fun facts guests may not know, and indulge in a little sentimentality.
  • You want them to look back and remember their 18th birthday warmly.
  • So, focus on things that are meaningful, because that’s what they’ll remember.

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Matt James professional event planner
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a trip down memory lane

Have guests take a trip down memory lane by sharing their favorite memory of the 18th birthday boy or girl

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Share a memory cards and sign for a 18th birthday party trip down memory lane
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reasons we love you photo book

Invite friends and family to take photos expressing all the things they love about the birthday boy / girl to collect together in a keepsake photo book to celebrate their 18th birthday

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18th birthday reasons we love you photo-book
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18th birthday slideshow

Invite friends and family to contribute photos and videos of the birthday boy / girl to surprise them with an animated slideshow

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group of friends watching a backyard birthday slideshow
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18 years of memories

Invite friends and family to pen a handwritten letter sharing their fondest memories of the birthday boy / girl to present as a thoughtful 18th birthday gift

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a stack of numbered '18 years of memory' letters in air mail envelopes
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photo memory box

Collect cards, memories, letters, photos, and birthday wishes from friends and family and present them to the birthday boy or girl in a custom photo keepsake box

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memory keepsake box customized with 18 years of photos of the birthday honoree
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reasons we love you guestbook

Turn a guestbook into a meaningful keepsake by having party-goers write down all the things they love about the 18th birthday boy / girl

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handwritten 18 reasons we love you signing poster birthday guestbook alternative
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bucket list suggestions

Ask guests to suggest experiences for the 18th birthday boy / girl to have before they turn 21

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'Before I'm 21' bucket list suggestions cards and sign for an 18th birthday party
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‘through the years’ photo garlands

Create interactive party decorations by asking guests to bring their favorite pictures of the 18th birthday boy / girl to add to photo garland decorations

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woman hanging a photo on interactive photo garland party decorations showing the 18th birthday boy 'Through the Years'
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video guestbook

Capture the love by setting up a tablet on a tripod for guests to record video messages for the 18th birthday boy / girl

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two teenage girls recording a video message on a tablet on a tripod for a 18th birthday party
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18 years of memories photo book

Invite friends and family to contribute photos of the birthday boy / girl ‘through the years’ to capture in a custom photo book

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18 years of memories photo book showing the birthday boy through the years
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photo collage

A framed photo collage of the birthday boy / girl at different stages of their life makes both a thoughtful 18th birthday gift and an entertaining tabletop display to entertain guests

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framed Happy 18th Birthday photo collage with the numbers 18 made up of 'through the years' style photos of the birthday girl at different ages
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03 limit the gag gifts

  • A few gag gifts are fine, but don’t make them the entire focus of your celebration.
  • Everyone has seen and heard them all before,
  • and they’re the type of thing that just ends up stuffed in a drawer the next day,
  • or worse, in the trash.
  • Instead, focus on fun gifts that are personalized and/or meaningful, because that’s what they’ll remember and want to keep.

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Matt James professional event planner
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custom piñata

Create a talking point, memorable moment, and photo op for guests to share with a custom piñata resembling the 18th birthday boy / girl

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man standing next to a custom pinata of himself
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custom puppet

For a truly unique and personal gift have a custom Muppet-style puppet made of the birthday boy / girl

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woman standing next to a custom muppet-style puppet of herself for a adult birthday gift
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custom reel viewer

Ask friends an family for photos of their favorite memory of the birthday boy / girl to collect together in a custom reel viewer

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custom reel viewer / viewfinder made with your own photos for a adult birthday gift
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custom comic book

Tell the birthday boy / girl’s life story (so far) by creating a custom comic book featuring photos of them ‘through the years’

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'Super Dad' custom comic book featuring cartoon versions of family photos for a adult birthday gift
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04 how to make a 18th birthday memorable

  • Let’s be honest, looking back, they’re probably not going to remember that their 18th birthday party had Mango Mojitos…
  • or gourmet bacon & goat cheese sliders…
  • or that the balloons were emblazoned with 18 & Fabulous.
  • And all those gag gifts and jokes are probably going to get stuffed in a drawer (or the trash!) the very next day.
  • But the special 18th birthday ideas on this page are the type of things they’ll keep and treasure.
  • They’ll get enjoyment from re-visiting them in the future.
  • Because they’ll remember how they made them FEEL.

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Matt James professional event planner
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fun facts balloons

Hang photos with ‘fun facts you may not know about the 18th birthday boy / girl’ from helium balloons to entertain guests

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Photos and 'Fun Facts' about the 18th birthday boy/girl hanging from helium balloon strings used as party room decorations
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FUN FACTS FILLED BALLOONS

Fill balloons with ‘fun facts you may not know about the 18th birthday boy / girl’ and encourage guests to pop to reveal

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Fun facts filled 'Pop Me' balloons for an 18th birthday party
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guestbook alternative: signing poster

Invite guests to write messages for the 18th birthday boy / girl on a signing poster with ‘Then & Now’ photos to be framed as a keepsake

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18th birthday party custom 'then & now' photo framed signing poster guestbook alternative
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fun facts napkins

Use on bars, buffet, or dessert tables to provide conversation-starters and entertain guests with ‘Fun Facts About the Birthday Boy / Girl’

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custom photo 'Fun Facts about the Birthday Boy' 18th birthday party napkins
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polaroid guestbook

Snap it, shake it, stick it, sign it! Invite guests to illustrate their guestbook entry by using an instant camera

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Polaroid guestbook, instant camera, and instructions sign set up for a 18th birthday party

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great Ideas i wish i’d thought of…

Check out this great idea below from Marta Dansie of Marta Writes

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fun facts garland banners

Personalize your party decorations and entertain guests with garland banners highlighting fun facts about the 18th birthday boy / girl

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18th birthday fun facts about the birthday boy/girl garland banner decorations hanging from tree at garden party
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black and gold striped custom 18th birthday party dessert table backdrop
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boxwood hedge 18th birthday party drinks bar wall with shelves of self-service drinks for guests to help themselves to
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