Thank You Speech

“A welcome / party thank you speech is a great way to unite all the distinct groups present; relatives, old college friends, work colleagues etc and recognize them collectively as one group; people that are all important to the guest of honor.

Creating a moment that everyone shares helps people bond.

I recommend doing something like this earlier in the party—once you’re sure everyone has arrived.

People love to feel included, to be part of a group, and you’ll find there’s usually a much better sense of connection and cohesion among guests following a shared group experience. It encourages people to drop their guard and will help get the party off to a great start.

A simple example:

I remember reading about a dinner party where the host decided to make a quick speech once everyone had arrived, to explain why she’d felt motivated to bring them all together.

She explained that there had simply been so much stressful news in the country that particular week, and she knew just seeing everyone’s faces would be reassuring.

She told them it made her feel connected and grounded, and that she was grateful they could all just gather around the dinner table together on a blustery night.

Her simple, honest, and touching little speech prompted all her friends to burst into applause.

People love to feel connected, especially through something authentic or meaningful, and creating an initial bond encourages more interaction throughout the event.“